The Book in Three Sentences “Any time you sincerely want to make a change, the first thing you must do is to raise your standards and believe you can meet them”. “We must change our belief system and develop a sense of certainty that we can and will meet the new standards before we actually do”. “It’s not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives, but what we do consistently”. The Five Big Ideas “The three decisions that control your destiny are: 1. Your decisions about what to focus