The Dark Secrets of Manipulation and Mind Control Psychology Tricks Manipulating others is a way to get what you want whether it is tricking your boss into giving you a raise or getting your partner to whisk you away on a romantic vacation. Many believe this way to be immoral, and wrong. Whatever your reason for manipulating someone, play your cards right and hone your manipulation skills. Try out a variety of manipulation techniques, and learn how to manipulate people in a variety of situation